Dear Spiritual Family,
When you think of heroes, who or what comes to mind? For several of our grandchildren, it is Captain America or Obi-Wan Kenobi from Star Wars. In our youth, it was typically Superman or Supergirl. Of course, we think of our military heroes and our first responders, and other apparent acts of heroism.
But what about the hero in you? What about that part of you that puts self-interest aside to “come to the rescue” of a loved one or even a stranger? Maybe that act of “heroism” isn’t something that will be seen on the morning news or even noticed by others at all and yet, there you are, reaching deep within yourself to make a difference for another.
The actions of a dear friend inspired this piece. I, Rev. Steve, watched as she rushed to the aid of someone who needed her touch, her voice, and her focused caring. She had no “cape,” no superpowers, just a desire to help bring light to the person, to do what she could to make them more comfortable to be seen and heard. And it was a great gift to me to be a witness to her love and compassion.
What if you and I take a moment to reflect on those times when we have reached out to others to speak a kind word and to offer our presence to them? Our ego nature would tend to minimize such acts as “not enough,” or certainly, “not heroic.” Yet, if we sit with these acts, if we allow ourselves to reflect on the purer motivations for them, we will be in an ideal position to receive the blessings that naturally fold back on us as a result of our outreach.
These “heroic” actions emanate from our Spirit. And when we ruminate on these impulses from our hearts – not to caretake but to care for, we are lifted into an authentic realization of our connectedness, our Oneness with God and the Christ within ourselves and our sisters and brothers.
The questioning often arises: “Have I done enough? How might I have done it better? What more must I do?” Perhaps there will be more to do, to say, to be present to, but it’s so important, I believe, to pause and reflect on one’s decision to leave one’s comfort zone and be there for the other with an open heart and a willing hand.
We hope you will reflect on your heroic acts, little or great, noticed or done outside the view of others, for you make a difference. We know that about you, and we honor and celebrate the hero in you!
We Love You,
Rev. Steve and Mary